Lelia Jeanette Tracy Pickren Gibson of Folkston, Ga., age 96, left this earthly life on Tuesday, Oct. 17, 2017.
She was born Oct. 8, 1921 to Minnie Haddock and Porte Crayon Tracy in Boulogne, Fla. in the Tracy ancestral home called “Brooklyn.” The home was built by her great-grandfather, Erasmus D. Tracy, and located on the banks of the St. Marys River across from Traders Hill, Ga. Her childhood was spent playing along the river bank with her three sisters, doing chores at home such as soap making and learning the art of cooking and sewing. Her father taught the girls a new word every day at the dinner table.
Lelia came of age in the 1930s during the Great Depression, learning well the lessons of frugality and conservation. During a recent conversation, she reminisced about the old days and longingly remarked that “Life was so simple back then. We always had something coming up. It didn’t take much to make people happy.”
Lelia married Verne Johnson Pickren in 1941, and by 1952 completed her family of four children and designed a new home, which was built on Kingsland Drive. A longtime member of Folkston United Methodist Church, Lelia was accomplished in many areas and she was known in the Folkston community for her delicious cakes, her hand-tailored clothing and her paintings. Her one regret in life was that she wasn’t able to go to art school, but she wouldn’t have traded her marriage and family for anything. She was a devoted mother and grandmother.
Lelia was preceded in death by her parents, Porte and Minnie Tracy; her husbands, Verne Johnson Pickren, Sr. and Benjamin Simon Gibson; her sisters, Agnes Tracy Davis and Ada Tracy Norris and stepchildren Marian Pickren Bell and S. L. Pickren.
She is survived by her sister, Meta Tracy Cushing, age 100, of Jacksonville, Fla.; sons, Verne J. Pickren, Jr. and wife Cathy of Folkston and Fernandina Beach, Fla. and Porter Tracy Pickren and wife Pamela of Lee, Fla.; daughters, Marcia Pickren Fraser and husband John of Franklin, Tenn. and Lisa Pickren Larson and husband David Larson of Atlanta, Ga.; stepdaughters, Jean Pickren Harrison of St. Marys, Ga., Cathy Gibson McKenzie of Swainsboro, Ga. and Sue Gibson Moncrief of Auburn, Ala.; grandchildren, Verne J. Pickren III (Tracy) of Sylvania, Ga., Mark D. Pickren and wife Audrey of Folkston, Susannah D. Fraser and husband Scott Stecklein of Denver, Colo., John Rory Fraser and wife Carolyn of Ithaca, N.Y., Ross Lovat Fraser of Franklin, Tenn., Katherine Tracy (Kate) Larson of Austin, Texas and James David (Jim) Larson of Denver, Colo.; great-grandchildren, Gage Pickren, Jamie Pickren, Colton Pickren, Jolie Kate Pickren, Ben Pickren, Oscar Stecklein and Leo Stecklein and numerous step-grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Special gratitude to her wonderful team of caregivers, Sharon Mitchell, Tosha Carter, Eleanor Jones, Linda Johns, Penny Sikes and Kara Prescott, who cared for, blessed and loved Lelia. Grateful thanks to Glenda Gowen for her weekly visits and personal hair care. The family extends heartfelt appreciation to Mark Pickren for his selfless, devoted and loving care to his grandmother during these past years.
Memorial donations may be made to Folkston UMC Kitchen Ministry, P.O. Box 396, Folkston, GA 31537. The family received friends Thursday, Oct. 19 at Shepard-Roberson Funeral Home from 6-8 p.m. Graveside funeral services will be held Friday, Oct. 20 at 11 a.m. in Pineview Cemetery. Condolences may be expressed by signing the guest registry at www.shepardfh.com. Arrangements are under the direction of Shepard-Roberson Funeral Home in Folkston.